How can i be strong minded?

Sounds like you are happy with what is going on in your life but every time you BFF says something you try to comform.Hummm? You have your own thoughts and feelings and you should not try to blend them with anyone elses! The sayingg usually says that the first thought is usually true so go with your first thought! Not your BFF. You are creating problems for yourself and your boyfriend. As for the girl in the mall, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, even you. Some ppl are leaders and some are followers....which do you want to be in life?